Archive for June, 2012

Why Self-Development Doesn’t Work for Everybody

Many people told me that they tried everything in self-development and don’t see results. I explained some reasons why in the article How to Get RESULTS Instead of “Gathering Information”, in the video Why the Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work for Everybody and in the video Why Self-Development Brings Unsatisfying Results. I just realized another reason why many people aren’t seeing results.

I was pondering about why some people have huge resistances to some of the concepts I talk about. Many women get on their defenses and jump off the boat whenever I talk about femininity. I also lose some people when I say that positive thinking and living in unconditional love isn’t enough and that you have to directly deal with problems. For example, many lightworkers are being attacked psychically (or even physically) and simply focusing on love will not resolve the challenges that this brings.

Many people don’t progress because they identify themselves by their problems. If it defines who you are, removing those problems would be killing your identity of self, which your subconscious mind won’t allow to happen. In order to let go of problems and limitations in your life, you have to shift your sense of identity towards what you want to achieve in life and your unique experience of life.

What I just realized is that something very similar happens to people in spirituality and energy healing. Many people identify themselves by their spiritual principles such as unconditional love and positive thinking. Instead …Read More

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The Curse of Positive Thinking

There is a widespread idea in the self-development and spiritual communities that you should focus only on what you want to create and turn your attention away from the obstacles. I was reading The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles which is really a brilliant book published in 1910. He mentions that you should focus your unwavering thoughts on what you want to create and let the challenges and negative things become obsolete and disappear by themselves. This is something to be very careful about. There have been so many people falling into bankruptcy, projects falling apart and even a space shuttle exploding in mid-air for a lack of properly solving the problems that arose along the way. I highly recommend you to read the book Illuminate: Harnessing the Positive Power of Negative Thinking by David Corbin.

Yesterday I went to see my Alchemy teacher for 4h of private training. Turns out I had lots of dark forces stuck on me, around me and completely blocking my path in life, even though I was constantly working on healing and detaching myself. I tend to go fully forward 80% and to hold back 20%. All that we cleaned up totally explains why! I’m working with several of the best coaches in the world and I’m doing all the right actions with the proper mindset. Although it greatly moves my life forward, I kept facing unexpected challenges and struggles preventing me from reaching the level of success I desire. Yes, …Read More

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Biggest Self-Transformation Event Ever

Here are some updates. Up until now, I only organized small intimate events with 6 or 7 clients for a powerful transformation experience. 4 of the 6 people who fled from United States, Denmark and Sweden to the live event in Medellin in Colombia are also coming to the Montreal event, which is great. The focus of the Montreal event has shifted to help people awaken their inner powers from a higher perspective, to step into their life purpose in a way that can earn them good money. So far there are 10 people confirmed for the event with a few more that are not yet confirmed. Yet, there is only a single person from Montreal joining, and a single woman. This makes it the largest event I ever organized, and this event will be an intimate group of probably around 15 people which will allow us to work specifically on the situations of every attendees. This is great for me, and great for you.

This new approach to self-transformation definitely addresses a huge need. There are so many people in spirituality who want to make a positive difference in the world yet have no clue how to make money from their ideas… and traditional business approaches often DO NOT WORK for spirituality-oriented projects and businesses. That being said, my approach is not for everybody. What I teach is for spiritually-conscious people, especially men, who respect and honor the feminine energy and who are serious about taking bold actions to achieve …Read More

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The Unshakable Power of Femininity

I came to realize that talking about femininity really triggered many women’s defenses. This really wasn’t my intention. My intention is to empower you so that you can live the way you truly desire. I came to realize that there are lots of ideas and stigmas related to femininity which distort the message. To rectify this miscommunication, let’s talk about the unshakable power of femininity.

Many people see femininity as being weak and bending to someone else’s will. It’s quite the contrary. Femininity is about having the power of winds and oceans which can shape any cliffs and mountains. It is about having such fluidity that it becomes unshakable, unstainable and unpredictable. Does water bend to the will of boats, or do boats follow the flow of water? Does the wind bend to the will of cliffs, or does it shape the cliffs?

There has been a great movement of women’s empowerment over the last 30 years which restored the rights of women which is a great thing because women have really been disrespected, abused and silenced in the past. The modern woman has become very educated and very competitive in business and in the marketplace. Many women are also telling me that they are getting annoyed by the competitiveness and rivalry of women in personal relationships. This growth of competitive power is a required phase to awaken your full potential, and I think this phase has been successful. The next phase would be to grow from competitive power to cooperative power. …Read More

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Shaking to the Core

I’ve been alienating women for a long time by talking about sexual polarity. I’ve been alienating the seduction community for a long time by telling them they’d get more if they stopped trying to take from others. I’ve alienating the mainstream for a long time by talking about “far out” stuff that has nothing to do with “normally acceptable” stuff. Now I’m even alienating some existing clients by telling them to step into their life purpose instead of just meditating to improve their personal lives. Just yesterday there’s a Quebec spiritual woman who took the time to send me a personal request to remove her from the strategy session and mailing list. Sometimes I wonder whether I should tone down my message to make it more socially acceptable… but that wouldn’t feel right. Yesterday I was talking with Sylvain St-Martin and he said I could softly introduce controversial topics so that people gradually see the benefits and gradually open up. If I did that, I couldn’t have nearly the level of transformation I offer during my coaching and events.

Yes, a lot of the things I talk about go against your beliefs. Yes, a lot of it pushes you out of your comfort zone and threatens your stability and pride. Yes, many of you may hate the last article I wrote. Yes, a lot of it may even go against your spiritual principles and most sacred values. That’s exactly why it is so powerful. The testimonials from the Self-Awakening and Transformation …Read More

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