I’ve been alienating women for a long time by talking about sexual polarity. I’ve been alienating the seduction community for a long time by telling them they’d get more if they stopped trying to take from others. I’ve alienating the mainstream for a long time by talking about “far out” stuff that has nothing to do with “normally acceptable” stuff. Now I’m even alienating some existing clients by telling them to step into their life purpose instead of just meditating to improve their personal lives. Just yesterday there’s a Quebec spiritual woman who took the time to send me a personal request to remove her from the strategy session and mailing list. Sometimes I wonder whether I should tone down my message to make it more socially acceptable… but that wouldn’t feel right. Yesterday I was talking with Sylvain St-Martin and he said I could softly introduce controversial topics so that people gradually see the benefits and gradually open up. If I did that, I couldn’t have nearly the level of transformation I offer during my coaching and events.
Yes, a lot of the things I talk about go against your beliefs. Yes, a lot of it pushes you out of your comfort zone and threatens your stability and pride. Yes, many of you may hate the last article I wrote. Yes, a lot of it may even go against your spiritual principles and most sacred values. That’s exactly why it is so powerful. The testimonials from the Self-Awakening and Transformation Live Event in Medellin show the level of power some of these sensitive topics open up to. Note that this event was 4 intense days of over 15 hours each!! Extremely intense. Some of them also had private coaching upgrades on top of that. It doesn’t mean the Montreal Event will have the same level of internal transformation; however it does show what is possible with the things I play with. There are some discussions I do not get into such as whether energies exist, as I can make anyone feel movements and tingling of energy within their bodies within 30 seconds. No rational theories can contradict real life experiences.
Paul was totally stuck in his head and had a hard time communicating and connecting with others. His engineering mind kept running around like crazy, on top of having almost no feminine energy at all. In that video, he looks literally 10 years younger than 5 days before, he’s much more relaxed and much more in his body. Awakening his feminine energy also brought a balance which made a huge difference!
Andreas, although he was well spiritually developed, was really stuck in his shell and disconnected from his emotions and emotional power. He wasn’t able to get in from of a camera and say something meaningful for 30 seconds without saying “uh” all the time. When another participant saw Andreas’ testimonial, he said “Andreas, is that you!?” The way he expresses himself has nothing to do with the way it was before the event. Plus, he’s now better than before at poker and he’s making more money from that!
Monica, although she was not at that event, is my female experimentation 🙂 She’s one of the few women I’ve met who actively wanted to awaken her femininity and she talks about the difference it made in her life. In that video, her masculinity extends 100km and her femininity extends 90km. Powerful energy, but masculinity was still her dominant polarity. Since she realized that, her energy has now shifted. Her masculinity now extends 75km and her femininity now extends 120km. She’s attracting goodness and people are actually pausing to acknowledge her presence, especially men.
That being said, the energy field of most of those who attended the Self-Awakening and Transformation Live Event extends between 8 and 16 feet. In order to extend beyond that, they would have to align their energy and actions with what their heart is telling them to do. The majority of those who came to Medellin in Colombia for this event are also coming over to the Purpose and Prosperity Live Event in Montreal.
I know the vast majority of people are not ready to step into many of the things I teach because some topics are uncomfortable and contradict their beliefs. If I do allow some people who are not ready for it to come to my event, it would hold back the energy of the entire group. If I avoid some of the sensitive topics such as balancing sexual polarity, I couldn’t provide nearly the same transformation as I would otherwise, and I don’t want to dilute the experience of those who want to step full-in. Thus, I will hold my ground and acknowledge that many of the things I talk about will be uncomfortable and challenging. Those who want fast and profound transformation know how to find me. Those who want socially acceptable stuff that doesn’t contradict their core beliefs can find plenty of other coaches or therapists out there. It really depends where you want to go with your life.
When my parents heard that some people are flying from Europe to the Purpose and Prosperity Live Event in Montreal, she thought they have to be people with money. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Although some of them do have money, most do NOT have money. These are people who DESIRE money, and the decision they make now will impact the years to come and the rest of their lives. Big difference. My own parents do not understand that difference, but I’m sure you do.
Although I’ve mostly been working with men so far, 70% of people in spirituality are women so it is important to make it accessible for women. I will simply say this. If you are a woman and considering working with me, you must be able to watch the Shine video and feel its energy without running the other way, as I will use this for powerful awakening work during the event. Opening your femininity is what will also allow you to strengthen your passion, strengthen your ability to take responsibility and strengthen your worthiness, with a special meditation that I never shared in public yet.
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#1 by Eric on June 7, 2012 - 9:42 pm
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Who you are and your awareness forms the overall message that you want to share with others. Of course, some people are more ready than others to confront certain realities, and some, their belief system will only allow them to go so far.
By sharing your message, you are staying true to yourself, which is what makes you and your message unique.
There is a lot of truth out there that is not often spoken of so by giving it a voice you expose others to more truth.
If you ever wonder about finding an easier way in getting a message across others might not be able to take in, I would say this word of advice which will only be applicable if you feel the need for it: when you communicate others feel comfortable when you talk about things which have familiarity, so the more familiarity and foundation you focus on FIRST, will actually help you open the door to something more advanced” in the next sentence. It’s sort of a “reality bridge”, which will prep people to new ideas with greater ease.
Say for example, you want to recommend “people consider moving to the colonies built on Mars”, then if you start with some background info, and make the idea sound not as crazy, then you can drop the bomb of “anyone care to join me on Mars? you may have less people jumping “off the train”… 🙂
Either way, stay who you are, this is what makes you unique. And it is true, it is easy to remain ignorant, but there is a higher level of existence waiting for those ready for a higher awareness.
I think you will attract more people if you used photos and images whenever you introduce an idea that might seem ass “out there” for some people.
Images will introduce great balance into area of unreality and will inject the right dose of reality into your message.
Good luck
#2 by Bushra on June 8, 2012 - 12:36 am
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This article was nice, and I beg to differ about the controverisal topics you write, coz the shaking to the core really happens, which is necessary when things have to move forward. So I would say please continue to be bold in writing and expressing.
BTW, I have a suggestion for you. Well I see that there are 40 seats in the montreal event in total. Can you start to give out 1 fully paid sholarship for every workshop you conduct, to 1 of the participants, and this time to me? You can ofcourse do that based on the necessity. My desire to attend this program is strong! Can’t you help?
#3 by José Manuel on June 8, 2012 - 2:23 am
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Hello Etienne, this comment is a reality shaker for you also. For your better good, please re-read it several times with open mind if needed, and check how it makes you feel (and clean on everything that is touched). You’ll probably feel really badly, just in the same way you mentioned here other people felt when you intended to talk them out of their belief system.
What you feel others need, YOU also need. Remember your reality is a faithful mirror of yourself. This time, I’m clear you need to crack your own belief system… That’s why you see a need in other people to crack their own belief system. Also, your desire to heal others mirrors your desire to be healed yourself.
From all I’ve read/heard from you, the thing that smells like a lie the most has nothing to do with your core teachings (for the most part, those feel truthful to me)… But despite of that, the lie I detected is very clear in this message you just posted:
The lie here is this one: you struggling to have people connect and resonate with your core teachings. Another lie: your teachings being on “another level”, “beyond” what others are teaching… outside of people comfort zones, so “some” cannot grasp it. Big pile of bullshit here, Etienne. Great power lies behind all of this for you to embrace.
You somehow are believing these lies, and so your reality shows up with proof of this crap specially for you, from the Universe with Love to Etienne Charland, from his implicit request of this being a reality for himself.
I suggest you to break free from those limiting beliefs… You even have people supporting your proof of others rejecting what for you feels so real. I’m thankful I’m not like that. Instead I’m here to encourage you to shake that “reality” that you would in fact love it was better than that.
Obviously to me, there are many “spiritual teachers” that know and enlighten people about sexual polarity, and its importance. And it’s not an all so important part in what they “teach”, it’s just another component in the vastness of things to take into account for realizing our highest potential.
The stepping into our life purpose, doing what we’re meant to do, is also not uncommon at all amongst the living human stations that broadcast this kind of knowledge. No matter if you got proof of people that seem to find that out of their mind, don’t fall into the trap of sticking to that belief.
Ego stinks a lot whenever you or Rion talk about your teachings or what you do being light years ahead of others. As happy as you are to use this belief, then you’ll find great power, freedom and openness to more power and freedom by using the inverted affirmation also: Others are light years ahead on what you teach and do. The more you realize you in fact don’t know, the more knowledge you’re capable to embrace.
Another key thing from this is, the issue I just saw in you, I somehow also have. I’ll do some introspection in me about this, I take responsibility for it. So I’m sorry for having caused this in you, so that I could eventually realize it was actually in me.
#4 by Ish on June 9, 2012 - 12:13 pm
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In some I ways I agree with a couple of the people who have sent you emails. Its not good to fighting against a subject whatever it is. It spreads negative vibes.
The same messages from you in a positive tone will leave you internally fulfilledand good for others.
Critical thoughts implies some level of dependence on the outcome and perhaps taking mental positions against them.
The same message if given in positive tone only will resonate with the part within your followers that wants to change too the better.
Well done for what you are doing
Spirituality in its essence implies not taking positions and having compassion to all people at all stages of their awareness or lack of.