Many of you who have been on my list for a long time have been practicing Natural Grounding, a powerful methodology to heal and replenish your energy through sexual polarity with the Law of Resonance. (If you have never heard about Natural Grounding, I will be releasing new information about it soon.)
It has been extremely effective for me and for thousands of men who have been doing it. I initiated a few women to it as well, but it has mostly been a practice for men up until now. To be totally honest… I still don’t understand the power behind it, over 10 years after the first discovery of Natural Grounding by Rion Freeberg! I do not understand the Law of Sexual Polarity. It is somewhat related to the Law of Polarity and the Law of Resonance, but it is something else.
Natural Grounding and sexual polarity meditation has been one of the key elements that brought me where I am today, light-years ahead of what everybody else is teaching. It is the one thing that has been delivering results consistently. It is the one thing I have never been able to fully explain. It is the one thing that causes the most resistance when sharing with others, especially with North American women. It is the one thing that didn’t fit with all the other models and systems I have been studying. It is the one thing that caused me to keep questioning everything.
I used to believe that sexual polarity was like the poles of magnets where two masculine poles repel each other and two opposite poles have natural chemistry. I just realized this model is flawed, because two female energies can blend and harmonize together very well. Two female poles of magnets don’t behave that way. Masculinity is about presence and creation. Femininity is about harmony and flow. The closest proper analogy would be to compare masculinity with an oak tree and femininity with the water of a river, and we each have both energies within us to various levels. As a programmer and system architect, that’s not enough for me. I can’t program systems with analogies!
Now here’s something extremely interesting I just discovered by observing energy fields. Our energy field has 3 layers: physical energy, emotional energy and spiritual energy. When I read someone’s energy field for the balance of masculine and feminine energies, I usually look at the emotional energy in the solar plexus.
Here’s a more detailed reading of the masculine and feminine energies in my own solar plexus.
Spiritual layer: Masculinity extends to the cosmos. Femininity extends to the stars.
Emotional layer: Masculinity extends to the moon. Femininity extends to the sky.
Physical layer: Masculinity extends to the sky. Femininity is… ABSENT!
First off, I definitely need to express more my femininity, and embody more my physical masculine energy which is my weakness.
Where this gets very interesting is that the physical energy layer contains only a single polarity! I confirmed this by looking at the energy field of various people, men, women, gays and lesbians. Everybody has a single polarity in their physical energy based on their biological gender. Keep in mind that the physical energy is purely a human experience. A spirit doesn’t have any physical energy. This is part of the incarnation experience.
The fact that we only have one polarity in our physical energy explains physical attraction: we can only get that energy through a relationship! But then, since we can have very different balances of energies in the emotional and spiritual layers, there are still men getting together and women getting together. This changes nothing to this observation about our physical energy.
The emotional and physical energies are extremely repressed and under-valued in our culture. Many people carry the belief that men and women are the same on an energetic level, and this belief prevents the expression of their physical energy and causes a disconnection from their body. The majority of people are already disconnected from their physical energy anyway, so once you take away the part that is different, the belief that men and women are the same can become true. It just doesn’t feel very good to live that way.
The intense physical energy seems to be an important key to Natural Grounding. Here’s a video which I found to be very effective at reconnecting and energizing my true path. It has a very unique energy to it. The emotional and spiritual energies aren’t that high. However, her feminine physical energy extends to the stars (enlightened) in the solar plexus (power) and in the throat (direction in life). I get the benefits of watching this video by silencing the mind, tuning into these peak energies and involving my emotions.
Now I’m left with a few questions. Post your comments if you have insights about any of those.
1. How does the Law of Sexual Polarity really work?
2. What is really the difference between the physical and emotional polarity energies?
3. Why is Natural Grounding (sexual polarity meditation) so effective?
4. What is the best way for a woman to do Natural Grounding? Should she ground to pure feminine energy, or ground to the physical masculine energy she can’t have within herself, or do both?
5. What other possibilities does this physical energy open up?
As you can see in my own reading, the physical energy is my own weakness so it’s not an area I have fully explored yet. What I just shared here is not something any of my mentors (nor anyone else) ever mentioned either!
The reason I want to clarify this is because I want to lay down my methodology as a comprehensive system so that you can tap into this power as well. Natural Grounding is an important component of my methodology (although there’s much more to what I do). In order to lay down the system, I have to know how to properly apply it for women. In order to do so, I must properly understand how it works. Not with analogies, but with actual measurable facts.
P.S. Napoleon Hill talked about this in the book Think and Grow Rich under the chapter “The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation”… because he couldn’t explain it ether!
Etienne Charland, Soul Foundation Architect
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#1 by julian martin on June 3, 2013 - 8:23 pm
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What are some good videos that portray good masculine energies?
#2 by admin on June 4, 2013 - 5:17 pm
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It depends what kind of energy we’re looking for, and whether it’s to do Natural Grounding with the Law of Resonance or with Sexual Polarity.
Grounding to a woman who has a strong feminine emotional energy is very uplifting and inspiring, but quite frankly it doesn’t have nearly the same effect as a video with a strong feminine physical energy. Which gets me to think that for polarity work, only the physical energy matters.
Terry Tate has his physical masculine energy in the solar plexus extending to the stars. We’re looking for specific videos with fully enlightened specific energies, as I don’t know anyone who is perfectly enlightened on all levels. Even the most enlightened master has blind spots.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RzToNo7A-94
When it comes to men of strong presence and charisma, me, Rion Freeberg and Brent Smith are hard to beat, although we don’t get much on camera.
If you’re looking for someone who has a family and has his shit together on all levels, who is a great role model, look at J Jetrin at his J20 concert. Unfortunately, I found very few great clips about him on YouTube, you would have to get the convert DVD. His masculine energy extends to the cosmos (semi-enlightened) on most levels, and he equals Rion on emotional power.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVgZC6WU_tY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgZAqY2HEf4
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http://www.ethaicd.com/show.php?pid=69947
#3 by admin on June 4, 2013 - 5:30 pm
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No, it’s not true that only the physical energy matters.
This video is extremely powerful.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUN7cKIgn8Y
This is the reading of her masculine and feminine energies in the solar plexus.
Physical: Feminine to the sky. Masculine none.
Emotional: Feminine varies between to the moon and to the stars. Masculine 50km.
Spiritual: Feminine to the stars. Masculine to the moon.
Her spiritual feminine energy does awaken my masculine energy.
#4 by Nick on June 4, 2013 - 5:12 am
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1. How does the Law of Sexual Polarity really work?
In my opinion, when a man meditates to divine feminine energy, the feminine energy attracts the divine masculine out of him. Because the masculine is suppressed he has first to let go of the resistance, supression and false beliefs, that’s why he will cry in the beginning. When the resistance is gone the man will be able to feel his masculine energy and when grounding he will feel pure attraction and connection. At last, when he has been fully awakened he will be connected to the divine feminine in all women and as divine masculine he will be able to attract the divine out of them (the ones who are ready to let go of the resistance).
When a woman is meditating to divine feminine, she isn’t doing polarity work. She is working with the Law of Resonance. She is seeing the divine feminine in other women and feels that she is supressing that part of herself. By meditating she can let go of the resistance which is trigered by the video.
4. What is the best way for a woman to do Natural Grounding? Should she ground to pure feminine energy, or ground to the physical masculine energy she can’t have within herself, or do both?
I believe that she can do both. But for attraction I believe that its better to ground to masculine energy, so that she has congition of the differences between the sexes and the feelings of physical attraction.
3. Why is Natural Grounding (sexual polarity meditation) so effective?
Because, we are working with englightened energy (truth) itself. The effectives however its relevant to how much the person is willing to accept responsibility and let go of the resistances to the truth.
I have no idea about the other ones.
#5 by admin on June 4, 2013 - 5:47 am
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Why does the Feminine draws out the Masculine in such a way? (and vice-versa)
#6 by Nick on June 4, 2013 - 2:40 pm
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I believe the main reason is the drive for creation of new life, regarding the physical aspects of it. In others level is the drive to create your purpose/ destiny /reality.
#7 by mpgamer on June 5, 2013 - 9:52 am
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Very interesting discussion Etienne. Great video thx for sharing. Hahaha It’s actually humorous reading what you wrote about physical energy. I realized just how disconnected I was from that. In fact it took me a minute to figure out what you were even talking about lol.
My ego completely filtered out physical bodies as useless information. Kind of changes how you view videos like this eh?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wq7ftOZBy0E
Actual measurable facts? I don’t think that’s possible, at least not with our current technology. Some things simply cannot be measured by a computer. Emotions for example can only be “proven” through experience and thus are not scientifically provable. The human body is currently the only device with which we can measure such things. So it could be verifiable but not factual.
I think that men and women fundamentally have more similarities than differences(we are all human) but, it’s very clear their energy is different.
Some of these questions may only be answerable by God.
1) The masculine and feminine are the poles that attract one another. I see what you are saying about women being together. Yin is a very easy going energy so it’s reasonable to say that Yin could also surrender to another Yin. However, on a sexual attraction level, even same sex relationships always have one masculine and feminine partner. I can’t think of a single sexual relationship where this wasn’t the case.
2) Where does one energy end and another begin? To me the difference is the body is just a vessel and the emotions are the field that surrounds the vessel. I would assume they interact using electrical currents.
3) It gets us back in touch with nature as it is vs nurture how we’ve been told it is.
4) No experience in this area. I would assume grounding to natural masculine energy since that is the opposite polarity.
5) Not sure. Other than maintaining my own physical body, I don’t value the physical very much so it’s difficult to say what is possible. A natural grounding workout video? haha
#8 by Etienne Charland on June 5, 2013 - 9:55 am
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We might not have the technology for it yet, but I can intuitively and accurately measure the energy. As long as I have something specific to look at.
I can’t measure the activity of the conscious and subconscious minds because that’s a flawed and incomplete model.
#9 by advan on June 5, 2013 - 9:52 am
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hello etienne, when you say ‘her’ physical energy, which one are you talking about? there are like 10 of them. or the collective ‘her’.
I kind of get the sense of how this video has stronger physical energy, but im not totally sure.
what i would like to see is you find a video that has mainly spiritual energy.
and then one with mainly emotional energy.
Much like Rion did tri-feminine characteristics of natural inner social with alpha models. If you could break it down with some examples of physical, spiritual, and emotional it would be helpful to differentiate whats what, and then to know what youre talking about. then i might be able to have more insights,
not much comes to mind on points 1 and 2.
for 3– part of why its so effective is because it reintroduces you to tangible shakti energies that as growing up in the usa i couldnt find as easily or they were massively suppressed. to the point that everything seemed backwards and out of order. so this practice restores the natural order and harmony to a mans being in relation to woman. there’s probably other paragraphs to be written on other reasons whys its effective.
4)woman should ground to female energy first like men would. so they can become aware of freer femininity. and because there are few to literally zero natural alpha models in the western culture that its something they may have never seen. so it can open their minds to other ways of being and what is possible for them. then saturate in that. Then also ground to alpha yang male representation to further ignite their feminine core and allow it to bloom,.
5)physical energy opens up super possibilities in the physical realm. from your body, to objects to events. im kinda just saying that as a pleasant statement..i dont know..but its an empowering thought isnt it. and perhaps its the start of how the new physical energies can take form.
#10 by Etienne Charland on June 5, 2013 - 10:10 am
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Ok. Here are 3 videos, one with strong physical feminine, one with strong emotional feminine, one with strong spiritual feminine.
Physical Feminine: Morning Musume – One Two Three
Polarity reading in the solar plexus (woman in front in red)
Physical: Femininity to the stars. Masculinity none.
Emotional: Femininity to the cosmos. Masculinity to the sky.
Spiritual: Femininity to the sky (100km). Masculinity 80km.
(it’s more balanced than I would have expected)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXU3fI78mno
Emotional Feminine: Palmy – Butterfly
Polarity reading in the solar plexus
Physical: Femininity to the sky. Masculinity none.
Emotional: Femininity to the stars. Masculinity to the sky.
Spiritual: Femininity to the cosmos. Masculinity to the sky.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcLUkRU6Jms
Spiritual Feminine: HAYA – Qinghai Lake
Polarity reading in the solar plexus
Physical: Femininity 80km. Masculinity none.
Emotional: Femininity to the cosmos. Masculinity to the sky.
Spiritual: Femininity to the stars. Masculinity 80km.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUN7cKIgn8Y
#11 by Nate on June 5, 2013 - 12:48 pm
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I have an idea as to why Natural Grounding works. It is a method of supported vibrational practicing. All experience is a form of trance-meditation, whether we realize it or not.
Focusing your mind on video games or drama TV supports you in practicing a dualistic vibration. Drama and war games will induce a default vibration of paranoia, ‘figuring things out,’ predicting what’s next, tracking variables, wondering what others are thinking/wanting, winning over others, and how to control external situations. The more we practice focusing on this kind of information, the more familiar these mental and vibrational habits become to the mind and body, and therefore becomes our default state of being.
When men watch Natural Grounding videos, it almost forces you to feel the way you naturally should with women. The feminine vibration coming from the girls in the videos it calls up a reflection of love from even the most repressed man. Most women in our culture do no emit the feminine vibration very strongly, so men are not inspired to feel present, attentive, caring, clean, protective and loving.
When I watch these videos I can literally feel my heart open at certain moments, as well as energy transmissions in other chakra points. It does take a tiny bit of effort. If my awareness wanders into stories in my head, I stop seeing the images and I don’t get the effect.
External information (like video) can only go so far. Really we have the ability to call up this loving vibration any time, but Natural Grounding videos support us in that practice, the way a brace can help someone with a leg injury stand. Eventually the leg will become strong enough to stand on its own and the brace isn’t needed.
In other words the loving vibration can be called upon at will, and even become your default vibration after enough focus on Natural Grounding.
This loving vibration is at the center of your being, so Natural Grounding balances you when either your dominant vibration gets too low (carnal desire with no purpose), and too high (upside down pyramid chakras, all meditation no action). I think this is why Natural Grounding has such longevity as a personal tool, where many practices are stepping stones.
#12 by Ksenia on June 7, 2013 - 7:28 am
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– In tantra, for example, they try to bring out and unite both energies within a person. So then grounding to both is the way to go? I guess it also depends on a purpose – when I was grounding to Shakti I just wanted to get in touch with the side of me that I feel is very much present in me, I just wanted to be more aware of it on a daily basis. So haven’t done grounding to male energy yet.
– An excerpt (the only on this subject) from book I’m currently reading (in case you find it relevant):
“Masculine and Feminine represent atomic and elemental compositions of your DNA which translate into attributes women and men possess. This atomic distribution between the 2 sexes enables the collective human matrix a perfect energetic balance. … The steady thriving of your recent same-sex attraction is nothing but an attempt to re-balance the feminine atomic distribution in your human matrix since it had been lacking the past few thousand years. Your collective human genetic makeup is being transmuted to a perfectly balanced and stable state. The apparent imbalances which you observe today are in fact in alignment with the evolutionary codes dictating the proper emancipation of your entire species’ attributes and qualities.” from The Visible and Invisible Worlds of God by Caroline Cory.
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