If you’ve been on the path of spiritual transformation for a while, you’re probably at a very different place than you were a year or even 3 years ago. You feel more at peace with yourself, feel stronger, feel more confident that you can achieve what you want to do in life, and have more sexual magnetism. While this is great in and of itself, you may not be seeing external transformation to the same extent. Here I want to share one important realization to truly transform your external life.

Most of the people in your life, including your friends and family, have known you a certain way your whole life. Most of them don’t want you to change because it can make them uncomfortable, and even if you do become a completely different person, they will still see the person you have always been. So what can you do about this?

If I look at individuals who have gone through a huge transformation, such as my own mentors, they help thousands of entrepreneurs build 6 or 7-figure businesses. Yet, many people in their own family still don’t recognize them. It is just the way it is. You can fight against it or just accept it. Most people will never change and will never acknowledge your transformation. And anyway, you want to be a leader in the world, not a leader of your hometown.

So, the first step is to let go of the need to be recognized by the people around you.

Then, if you truly want to live your life differently, you have to start surrounding yourself with new people who are more aligned with your path and growth. These new people won’t have the same prejudices about you so it will make it much easier to build a proper social life, or even build a business.

So yes, it’s all about internal transformation, and at some point you also have to transform your external environment. And since you can’t pour wine in a bottle full of water, you may have to cut certain things or certain people out of your life to create space for new ones to come in.

When both your internal world and external world are transformed and support you more than they hold you back, that’s when life becomes really interesting.

Btw, the fourth audio in the Force of Life Training Series will be coming out very soon. We will explore inner conflicts of values in a depth that has never been explored before, to align your values with success. Keep an eye out of it!

Etienne Charland, Emergence Guardian
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